Parenting?

Hey, as you guys know exams are coming up. Yikes :/
so i decided that i should blog one more time.. until after exams that is, so don't expect alot of updates. but make sure you keep checking up on my blog and clicking my ads, cause i only have a lousy rm2.25 in my account.
 

          This time, i'm going to feedback on another bloggers post. Mr.Dang Kuok Ian.
recently, he posted about parenting and how they could improve. his post was as the following.

What makes a good parent??

this is what im gonna crap about. cause im bored and i need another reason for me not to study =)

so what really makes a good parent? (im 14. so dont expect any adult nonsense from me.)
well, personally, i think a good parent needs to know how to give space. i mean, some parents check up on us at night to see if we're asleep every hour or so. and the lifeless ones check our sms-es. -.- and another thing to being a good parent is learning to share =) im pretty sure that all of our parents give us stuff such as shelter, food, clothes etc. but money? i dont think so. they would give us lets say, RM30 per month? on everything like food, phone credit etc. THEY SHOULD GIVE MORE!! SERIOUSLY... using only RM10 per month on phone bill? and RM20 on food. crappy!!. so they should give more, thats what im trying to say. maybe RM1000?. =P

ok. another thing on being a good parent is freedom... this right here, is very important. cause without this element, teenagers like us cant go for small outings organised by our mates. without this element, we cant go play football in the morning. and most of all, without this element, we cant make friends...... doesnt it just really suck? i know it does. ok. another thing. erm... parents, please dont control your adorable kid's life. seriously. it just pisses them off and makes them wanna cry. you wont want that do you? let them do stuff that they like to do. like, if they wanna pursue their dream of becoming a singer or actor or something out of this world, let them... or better yet, support them!! it makes everyone happy. and another thing, parents should let their kids stay up as late as they like at this age. (13 - ?) cause theyve learned how to think better. you should be trusting them, cause they are your kids.

AND ONE LAST THING... parents, learn to love in a different way =3 be cool about whatever they have achieved. dont ask for more. it will only bring them down. -.-

Now This is My comment.

      The reason our parents check up on us every now and then at night, or whatever is to make sure we're okay. Maybe it can get a little irritating if our parents read our sms-es, but their just interested to find out if we mix with the right people, or are we really going out and not to some stripclub or something.
       Now i definetely know that my parents share alot with me. they give me and allowance of *** , i'm not telling cause i don't want to get robbed or laughed at. but imagine let's say they give an amount of.. RM5 a day? that sums up of around 25 a week. so in a month they would probably spend around rm100 just for your allowance.
       We have to count the transport money, add in another 150, groceries probably 300? then your tuition. if you add up all your tuition it would be an average of 500, don't blame me if i'm wrong i'm just guessing. how about your clothes, when you go out. lets just say hella alot of money and most of us have siblings so that makes them close to being broke. But still they manage to support us and buy us our extra stuff.
       Nextly, freedom. our parents do let us go out pretty often now lets look back at the start, the reason they check our sms-es is so that they know about who we mix with and if we should go out with them. If they didn't control our life, we wouldn't be in school right now, we'd be playing hookey going out all the time and that would make them irresponsible parents.
        I do agree with you in the supporting us, actually most of the time they always support us for better or for worse, usually for better but they still do support us. Most of the time they're the ones funding us with equipment moral support etc etc.. so support is usually already there. They could let their kids stay up late, but i doubt it's very healthy. they already trust us but there's always a limit to how much they can let you go, every parent is afraid of losing their kids.
          The reason why parents are always so overprotective is because they want their kids to have a better future than them, most of our parents weren't as fortunate as we were but then they studied hard and did well, that's why we're here right now. But sometimes parents can get a little irritating cause their still in their own time and the past is hard to forget.

Speaking about parents. Mother's day is coming soon, get off you bum and go buy something for your mom. thank her for everything she's done for you. give her a hug and a big i love you. compliments enlighten almost anyones day :)